Through life, we all eventually come across several people who fit our energetic blueprint perfectly .Falling in love happens quickly and easily; it’s just a hormonal imbalance happening in our bodies. Sometimes it can be a wonderful process, but sometimes it’s just pure physical lust.
But getting into a long-term relationship, where are hearts and bodies literally aligns, might be a once in a lifetime experience.
Of course you can decide to follow your Instincts your affliction your hormones and your feelings; You can start a relationship one night stand; But it won’t make you as happy as if you decide to stay a meaningful partnership.
The important question here is: ‘are you the master of your own life?’
Are you in love with yourself? Have you accepted your own dark aspects? Can you look at yourself in the mirror and feel loved and empowered? This is your soul.
Have you been following your dreams? Do you have self-respect; can you live with yourself?
Have you already figured it out that you are not a victim of your own life; what you actually are is an actor or actress who is well capable to portray any role, and get on the helm of your life.
If you don’t like the script, accept it write a new one tomorrow. You’re not a victim, you’re just acting victim.
Step into the divine energy. You’re not a victim of anything in your life. Rewrite your scenario. Remove all the things you don’t want in your life anymore and only write your successes, victories, won battles, conquered problems; see yourself at the top, fulfilling the biggest potential of your being.
You’re the author of the script called ‘Your Life’. If you have the past pain depression sickness and hurdles on the path of your life you’re ready to start thinking. You are ready to start a relationship with someone who understands that love for yourself comes from within.
A long lasting relationship usually has these traits:
° you share similar backgrounds, history and experiences.
° you share similar values
° your relationship is based on friendship
° you allow yourself to be vulnerable in front of your partner
Make a list of the things that you really liked in your previous relationships and then make another one, stating all things you never want to experience again. Imagine a person who possesses a combination of all these traits you are bringing from your past relationships.
Now imagine an ex partner who hurt you a lot and who possesses the traits you don’t want in your life anymore. So when you meet someone new you will be able to immediately recognize these traits and they will light up as like an alarm.
Learn something from it and stop communicating immediately. You don’t want to make the same mistake again, do you?
Many times, people fall in love with a person who looks like one of their parents, and, depending on their relationship with their family, this can be a good or a bad thing.
Can you be with that person for more than a year and still feel the spark? Are you excited to see him or her every day? Does your relationship evolve and grow?
Can they understand you when you are angry, frustrated, or just bad-willed? Do they like every aspect of you?
Confrontations can be very good if they are constructive. If you can hear each other out and create new insights that give you more energy than you had before, it’s an incredibly healthy relationship.
When you can give more energy to each other through communication, you always support and encourage your partner’s growth.
Remember: The soul always comes before the ego. When you experience an energetically strong connection with a soul, it opens a door for all kinds of new experiences, whether you are ready or not.
Last but not least:
A little bit of tension is sometimes welcome. Many people like to spice up their relationships. It can be passionate, intellectual, emotional, or any other kind of energy spark!
It is important that we are honest with each other, and a healthy kind of tension will introduce a dose of excitement; As if the adventure will never come to an end.